Monday, October 28, 2024

Déjà vu


I recently had a vacation in mid Wales, quite near the small coastal town of Tywyn. I was last there over 70 years ago.

At the age of 4 and then 5 the family had two vacations there. I traveled with my grandmother by rail and my parents traveled from London on a Vesper. (For Vesper – death trap on two wheels - see an example in the film: Roman Holiday). The very large Holiday Fellowship Guesthouse on the seafront used to organize walks each day, and one day we visited some scary waterfalls with what appeared to my young eyes some very flimsy wooden bridges over them. I can remember that vividly, and also the concert the house put on each week – basically an amateur talent show. I sang “Me and My Teddy Bear” the first year, and then in my best Cockney accent “Maybe It’s because I’m a Londoner” the second. I was no doubt a right precocious brat. Before I parted company with that kind of vacation in my mid-teens I had graduated to reciting my own humorous verse and doing conjuring tricks - badly.

The final things I can remember about Tywyn were fortifications on the beach – huge stones and barbed wire at the sea edge, which didn’t make for very successful paddling. For all these years I believed they were left over from the war in case the Germans came around into the Irish Sea and invaded from the West Coast of Wales.

So – I was surprised how much I remembered. From the visit this year the waterfalls turned out to be the Dolgoch Falls and we climbed higher and higher as the younger generation and three dogs led the way. I may have been smaller on my first visit, but they were just as large and impressive today.

As for the fortifications to repel a German invasion – now there was just five miles of sandy coastline with not a bit of barbed wire in sight. But you would expect that today. But an internet check showed these beaches were never expecting invasion, but rather were used in massive training exercises for the Normandy landings. Some bits had obviously still been in place all those years ago for my youthful memory to cling onto. So that is over 70 years of misconception put to rest. It was rather satisfying really.

Monday, September 23, 2024

Dogs

I never put myself down as a dog person.

However, I did grow up with a dog – a snappy poodle the family called Koko. Actually her pedegree name was Coquette of Manorway – I should know, all those years ago I used to write out the pedegrees for her puppies by hand with a hard ball point pen. It resulted in the word “bitch” being inadvertently imprinted on my mother’s best polished table for years.

But I digress.

Koko saw me through much of my childhood – seeing my father disappear over the hills, my mother remarrying, moving through four houses and an unhappy change of school, and finally my leaving home for good. Through all those ups and downs Koko was there – sleeping on my bed, producing puppies underneath the bed, and amusing us by walking on her hind legs the whole length of the house in pursuit of an apple core. I think it was Dr. Samuel Johnson who, as a product of his times, said: “Sir, a woman's preaching is like a dog's walking on his hind legs. It is not done well; but you are surprised to find it done at all.”

Move forward a few decades, and I am married with a daughter in her late teens. Can she have a dog? Her best friend found a stray on the side of the road, took it home to then be presented with a litter of puppies of indeterminate breed. So we had a puppy we called Cody. Our misadventures with Cody were related in an old post.

https://occasional2.blogspot.com/search?q=cody

Actually, Cody was a lovely dog, but no sooner did we take him on than my daughter met her future husband, and ultimately moved away to a flat which did not permit dogs. (They later moved into a house, and have had a series of dogs since). We tried to look after Cody, but our work and lifestyle did not fit, so we had to re-home him. He needed company which we couldn’t give him. A later phonecall established he’d gone to a good home and was loved.

So that was us and dogs. Work and lifestyle continued for a few more decades until the big R (retirement) came along, or at least semi-R for me. So – the question came up again from Mrs O - why couldn’t we have a dog?

We decided on investigating a “rescue” dog from one of the dog’s shelters. It would have to be an older dog, not a puppy requiring a year or two of labor-intensive chewy-pooey training. An older dog that would require just one walk a day – a leisurely stroll befittng our venerable years – and then would go into “couch potato” mode for the remaining 23/24. Researching it, it seems that a greyhound – or better still its smaller cousin a whippet – would fit the bill. Bred for racing, there was a glut of these breeds out there, whose career on the track was over, or in most cases, never got off the starting blocks.

After an internet search of several dog’s homes, we opted for one of the nearest, the Dog’s Trust, whose array of appealing smiley dog-faced portraits looked promising. There was one named Snouty – we assume he’d been named by a child – with a long pointy face and lean body – who was part-greyhound – namely a lurcher. We’d go and have a look at him.

Well, we looked, and Mrs O fell in love. He was lean but not mean, and had obviously been loved in a previous life. His back story involved a single parent family having to move house to where they couldn’t take their pet of seven years. It was a sad story. Snouty played fetch appealingly and accepted food with alacrity. The Dog’s Trust required us to make several visits and needed to see photos of our home, which was nice and responsble of them. But with Christmas coming up and the home wanting to clear the decks a bit, it was rather a rush.

So – we had a dog. Our first decision was to rename him as Scouty. He wouldn’t know the difference when being called in the park, but we would.

He was – is – BIG. Like buying furniture in a store that dwarfs everything else when you get it home, Scouty back at our place was BIG. When we sat side by side he had two laps to stretch out on, while still overlapping at both ends.      

The biggest change for me was that first night. Scouty got up on our bed and stretched himself out comfortably covering what appeared to be the greater part of it. In my best sonorous tones I uttered the word “Bed” and he got straight up and settled himself down in his own large floor level cot. Awww. Melt. I was smitten! I was so smitten after a lifetime of expressing just vague toleration of dogs, that it was a source of much merryment all around.

Of course, the word “Bed” only had temporary success. We would wake up in the morning with a huge lump of dog contentedly snoring between us.

And farting.

I would say that a dog like Scouty could be a most effective form of birth control…

Scouty now rules the roost. Each morning at a very precise time he comes and woofs in my face. If I am slow about acting he will take hold of my sleeve at the cuff and gently lead me to the back door. Scouty’s morning walk is sacrosanct. My rationale for agreeing to a dog was that I needed daily exercise. Well, that one worked out. We have a series of routes, and meet other familiar dog walkers, and it is part of our automatic routine. He has his preferences for food – and we have learned what works when he has to be fooled in accepting doggie medication.

We’ve done all the right things – albeit expensive things. He’s been on obedience courses to be socialised with other dogs and that brought good results. Having done family history including checking our own DNA, we did the same for him. There are companies out there that will accept a swab from a dog’s teeth – there’s a whole potential post there on how to obtain that and live to tell the tale – and we sent it off and waited for a most detailed report to eventually come back.

We were a little concerned about a report from a dog owner who had sent in their own DNA sample - to find that they were 40% Shihtzu – but I rather suspect that’s apocryphal. Anyhow, Scouty finally came back as 55% greyhound and then an assortment of terriers and whippets and others. They even gave us general locations and photos for some of his relatives. The thought of a lurcher family reunion briefly came to mind, but was hastily dismissed. The report did show the issues lurchers might develop in old age and that was useful to know.

As befits a “breed” that was part-produced for racing, Scouty likes to zoom. He had apparently never been given the opportunity in his past life, so the first time we let him off the lead he sprinted round and around the field in wild abandonment. But crucially, he then came back to us. He still does this when allowed. But his haring around the turf tends to end sooner now, and he’s definitely well out of breath at the end. But hey – it comes to us all - I don’t run marathons any more.

We have gone from disappointment at not going to certain places with a dog, to not caring because whole new vistas have appeared. On the few occasions when we have to go somewhere without him for a length of time, he eagerly rushes into kennels as his own personal doggie-vacation.

Yes – I’m a convert. Who would’ve thought it?

Thursday, July 27, 2023

How Can I Keep from Singing?

 My daughter is currently working on a song about Alzheimers. There’s cheerful for you. But it is a known fact that, as memory disappears, the ability to sing and remember songs stays a lot longer than other things. So in care homes, having singers come in to sing the old songs is real therapy. When I started in care homes many years ago as a health worker, the age group meant it was all songs from the Second World War. Now it seems to be Elvis impersonators.

A song about memory loss could perhaps slide into a version of an old song, originally a hymn and then a civil rights anthem – How can I keep from singing? Sometimes thought of as an old Shaker hymn; actually it is not. But the refrain “How can I keep from singing?” seems to fit the idea of my daughter’s song.

So, many years after I last wrote humorous verse (and even got paid for it occasionally) I had a rusty try at using the verse and chorus to fit the end of my daughter’s song.


As colours merge in misty shades

And to the past we’re clinging

Though memory dims and recall fades

How can I keep from singing?


So we may we feel as visions dark

And silent calm ‘tis bringing

A final time, we make our mark

How can I keep from singing?

 

All together now…

Saturday, January 14, 2023

Tom Dooley

 In 1958 an unknown group called the Kingston Trio (so named because of their love of calypso music) issued an album. One track was picked up by a DJ in Salt Lake City and given repeated plays, turning it into a single: Tom Dooley.

Hang down your head Tom Dooley.

Hang down your head and cry,

Hang down your head Tom Dooley,

For boy you’re bound to die.

It was a song that had travelled down through the ages based – vaguely – on a true event, the execution of Tom Dooley (real name Tom Dula) in 1868.

Tom Dula was a confederate soldier in the American civil war, although he spent much of his time as a prisoner of war. Both before the war and straight after his release he had various sexual encounters, which included three sisters or cousins, Laura, Anne and Pauline Foster. Anne was married at the time, but this didn’t seem to deter Tom. Into this ménage à troi (plus extras) someone introduced “soldier’s joy” (venereal desease) and they all caught it. Various complications and jealousies led to Laura disappearing, reportedly pregnant. Pauline led a search party to Laura’s shallow grave, and she and Anne were arrested. Tom legged it, but was caught and brought back. Ultimately, it was Tom and Anne who went on trial for murder and the case received huge publicity. Tom was convicted; his lawyer managed to get a new trial, but the second trial eighteen months later, still found him guilty. Before his execution he wrote out a statement that cleared Anne, and she was released. She later died from syphilis-induced insanity. Some believe that she was the real murderer and Tom took the blame to save her.

A song about messy relationships and venereal disease was hardly likely to make the hit parade, so a greatly sanitized version was recorded by the Kingstons. It was a huge hit, over six million copies of the single were sold. The Trio got a Grammy award in 1958 for best Country and Western record – and the next year when a Folk award was introduced, they got another Grammy for the same song. They also got a lawsuit when they claimed composer credits for the song.

The Kingston Trio became huge for a few years – they were to have five longplaying albums in the American top twenty album charts at one time.

However, they were not everyone’s cup of tea. Nik Cohn’s entertaining book written in 1968, Awopbopaloobop Alopbamboom gave them short shrift:

“Beaming all over their toothpaste faces, the Kingston Trio would dig up some old warhorse like Tom Dooley, full of stabbings and hangings, and turn it into a Shirley Temple nursery rhyme.”

The Kingstons received this kind of stick throughout much of their career. As they often remarked in interviews – somewhat testily – they didn’t believe in deliberately singing badly just to please the purists.

They actually sparked a musical revolution in the mainstream, where hordes of American college kids suddently discovered and embraced “folk music”. It was similar in the UK with Lonnie Donegan and skiffle.

The movement quickly evolved with female singers like Joan Baez, Caroline Hester, and Judy Collins. A young Jewish boy with adenoids called Robert Zinnerman changed his name to Bob Dylan, ‘borrowed’ the tune of an old song No More Auction Block – put in some new and suitably vague words and Blowin’ in the Wind was born. The song was taken to great heights by Peter Paul and Mary – a group manufactured by business interests just as much as the Monkees and Spice Girls were years later, but somehow they sounded more ‘authentic’ than the Kingstons.

Soon folk was everywhere. Middle-aged folkies like Pete Seeger, who’d been singing away for decades, suddenly entered the mainstream and got prestigious gigs.

Ultimately it morfed into folk rock, which meant adding both electric instruments and percussion behind the performance. That in turn – mixed with a folk hybrid, the blues – had a huge effect on rock in general. Perhaps the biggest result was that lyrics could now cover any subject under the sun.

Now there were lyrics to really make you think.

If only you could hear them.

But for many, a starting point was the clean cut smiles of the Kingston Trio.

So hang down your head Tom Dooley.

All together now.


Saturday, September 11, 2021

Nick Reynolds

 Nick Reynolds of the Kingston Trio was short. John Stewart (fellow member) regularly ribbed him in live performances. Among the one-liners I have on tapes of live shows:

Nick hurt himself yesterday - he fell off a rug.

He’s not really that short, it’s only make-up.

Nick was on the stretch-bar reading his copy of “Sex and the Single Dwarf.”

He punched me in the knee.

All very politically incorrect, but they were great friends in real life. Stewart had his ultimately fatal stroke while visiting Reynolds’ home.

Thursday, August 12, 2021

A review intended for IMDB


Review for GIRL’S TOWN

SEE Harold Lloyd Jr fall from a great height – and die! (There must have been an in-joke there!).

SEE Paul Anka sing Ave Maria to Mamie Van Doren and make her cry. (The effect on the viewer may be somewhat different). SEE the Platters sing – but without lead singer Tony Williams. A stand-in mimes his vocals just off camera or with his face hidden by less than subtle camera work. (What was the real story there?). SEE Mel Torme as one of the oldest film teenagers in the business get punched out by genuine teen Paul Anka. SEE the offspring of Charlie Chaplin, Robert Mitchum and Bing Crosby in small roles to illustrate why their film careers sank without trace. In the annals of bad film making, what more could you ask for?